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Waiting All My Life (Lyrics/Story)

(Cheryl and JaVonne)
March 14, 2010
Written by JaVonne Armstrong
I started writing this song after falling in love with Cheryl in 2004. The original song only had my part and the hook, which was a little different than it is now. It took me another 4 years to write Cheryl's response, because I couldn't imagine what she would say if I actually proposed! Well, she told me she loved me but wouldn't marry me until the laws changed in NJ (our home state). Then I was able to write her verse. Hmmm...funny how that happened :-)
The initial hook was written as "...I don't care about the law, cause it's you baby, you woman that I adore." We performed this song at a few functions and received a really positive audience response. I became more interested in the fight for marriage equality after the Proposition 8 fiasco in California. There wasn't much public outcry from the LGBTQ people of color community that I could see and I found this disturbing because this is our fight also. So, I became involved and have been trying to learn more as I go. What I also decided was that this song could possibly add a little R&B flavor to this important movement and help further consciousness and increase awareness around the cause. During a telephone fund raiser supporting Marriage Equality, a wonderful woman took notice of the song and suggested that some of the lyrics did not quite send the intended message, and so I changed them to better meet the needs of the cause. Hence, the song is finally completed and we put it in your hands! Let's send a clear message that this cause is important to all of us! Help us get this song heard across the country and let's convince our law makers that it's time for a real change!
JAVONNE:
Never been one to settle down
All this talk about gay marriage that's going 'round
Then the angels in the universe sent your love to me
Now I'm hoping and I'm praying that you will marry me
I know your mother will never understand
But I can love you better than anyone else can
We must change this law
Cause it's you baby, you woman that I adore

Waiting all my life
For you to be my wife
We must change the law
It's you I adore

Will you marry me?

CHERYL
I can't believe all God has done for me
And now the love of my life wants to marry me
A woman who is sweet and warm
loves to hold me in her arms
this love I will never deny
I wont be stuck in a closet living a lie
And I know my mother will never understand
But you can love me better than anyone else can
Now we must change this law
Cause it's you baby, you woman that I adore....